Passion, boundaries, and family life

As I think about this week’s readings and videos, I am struck by a few recurring themes.  I need to have a passion in what I am doing; I need to have boundaries that will preserve what is most important; and I need to maintain my family life regardless of what else happens.

The need for passion is clear.  I have to believe in what I am doing to the point that others will believe.  Even when things are going wrong (This is almost certain to happen.)  By taking clear steps forward with a business venture, even when we don’t know what will happen, will show others that we believe in what we are doing.  It is almost like George Leonard had mentioned in his book “Mastery.”  Being able to visualize the ending will help you to be successful.

Setting boundaries is important.  There are several things that I value deeply and am not willing to give up in order to be an entrepreneur.  In the readings and videos it mentioned on multiple occasions that a new venture can consume all of your time.  I am not willing to sacrifice my family life or my church life for a business venture, so it is important to have boundaries in place before I begin so that I have the necessary guardrails in place.

This week I have realized how critical family life is for me especially.  Having a conversation with my wife about her day or listening to my five year old make up a story as she is going along are things that I will remember long after any business venture is gone.  I draw strength from my family.  I realize that if I am to succeed in being an entrepreneur I will need to have my family firmly behind or possible beside me as I start my new adventure.